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Sherman McCoy's avatar

Must be a typo … it’s GRIFT Capital!

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Robert Farago's avatar

Come on men, do you want to live forever? Well you can’t. And there are times and places where you feel truly alive because you’re aware of the possibility of death.

How much death you’re willing to dice with varies according to age, experience and genetics.

It is the latter that brings the “do I park the bike for my family?” conundrum into sharp focus. As you point out, a dead father isn’t much use except for leaving a legacy of trauma, self-doubt and self-destruction.

I stopped motorcycling when the girls were young - and still drove fast cars faster than I “should have.” I picked up biking again when I felt reasonably confident I’d done my job well enough not to fuck them up if I shuffled off this mortal coil.

But I understand those who can’t give up high risk activities for their children. Addiction is also an inheritance, both for us and our children. Showing our kids how to channel our urges and manage their risk is, as you point out, a valuable lesson.

As always, you pays your money, you take your chances. I always try to keep in mind the British aphorism “it’s the bus you don’t see that kills you.” And never take a bus if I can help it.

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